Get Back Up and Dust Yourself Off: Rise and Claim the Love You Truly Deserve
Posted on April 24, 2026
Reclaim Your Worth
You love her, but you aren't enough for her. She treats you accordingly, but you've already poured years into her, and she still doesn't treat you like you're worthy of her time.
But, let's face it, she's not worthy of yours. You were always the catch, and she walked all over you like you're a doormat. While she was at it, she wiped her muddy boots on you, and then later used you like a mudstick and scraped the gum off the bottom of her shoe with you… So, what do you do?
Look, I get it, I've been there. We've all been there. We've all hit that ultimate low in love, and at some point, we felt it would be easier to express our feelings in self destructive ways. We felt it would just be easier to disappear, not only from her life, but altogether.
And let me be the first to tell you that this isn't the way. Because, all of those feelings drowning you in despair, they fade. You get over it. You'll never forget it, but at the same time, you'll look back and remember all that hurt inside, and you'll laugh at how hard you let her control your emotions by her not caring, and you on the other hand caring too much.
Yeah, you love her, so what? She doesn't love you, and I can't stress to you how obvious it is to everybody but you. "Oh, but this is what I want!" Are you sure? You want her? Why? She hasn't done a single thing for you.
Tell me where in all that madness you say you want is the reciprocation of love? And if you can't say it's there, then how can you possibly sit there and tell me that this is what you want? You don't want that, and I know that, because when people snap out of that stupid "I wish this was love" spell that they're in, they realize that it's not what they want at all.
And this is because they finally see that they could never be enough for her. They could never live up to her standards, because she doesn't have any, and the ones she holds you at are unrealistic, and you will never be able to meet them. It's the dangling carrot to see how far she can get you to go. She's leading you on, and there is no end to it. There is no light at the end of that tunnel.
She's buried you so deep into her image of yourself that she has for you that paints you as a lesser than instead of the leader you know you were born to become that you started to believe it. So, wake up, leader… the woman meant for you who's been waiting for you is out there, and she's not the type of person that will do that to you.
She's the type of woman that knows you will lead. She's the woman who will value your input, and won't be afraid to treat you like her king. She's the woman who won't play games and is just as tired of them too. She's the type that will let you finish what you were saying, because she respects your opinion, she values your voice.
Choose to see your value, and she will choose to seek you out. Stand in forgiveness for what you've been through. You've been hard on yourself, and you haven't seen the man you've become. Choose to rise up as the leader, and the rest will follow, I assure you.
You were born to lead. Dive deep with the book!
